Why Angry Parenting Destroys Communication

I always tell parents, I do workshop with parents, how to surprise your children. When your daughter turns 16, and suppose she has said that mom I'll come back by 10 o'clock. You said okay, go. And she comes at 11 o'clock. What is really you are going to do? Where were you at 11 o'clock? You said I called you. You are a fool. I will never let you go from now on. There is no question. I told you not to let her go. Send someone with her. Why was your phone off? This is what you will do. She came up with 50,000 answers. Mom was stuck in the car. Now in contrast, suppose she has come at 11 o'clock and you say, Did you eat something?

Shall I make something for you? You look. So she will know. What happened? She will automatically herself tell you that why she is delayed.