Why Following Your Parents Is Killing You Inside

4 February 2026·5.5K views·214 likes·1m 3s·177 words

Key Takeaways

  • 1Should I do what my parents are asking me to do or should I do what I am doing
  • 2My relation with my father ended when I said to him that you don't care about what my dreams are
  • 3Do you think your parents think about you
  • 4Parents take children as their investment for future
  • 5It's his desire imposing on the daughter or the son

Full Transcript

My relation with my father ended when I said to him that you don't care about what my dreams are. He said, fuck your dreams. I don't care. Do you think your parents think about you? Parents take children as their investment for future. It's his desire imposing on the daughter or the son. No one asked the son what he wanted to be. I like this girl but my parents don't like her. What do I do? I want to leave my home but my parents are asking who will support them. We get stuck in conflict. Should I do what my parents are asking me to do or should I do what I am doing? And there's this sense of guilt.

I am a parent. I am a child. Essentially, we are compromising a love of life for somebody's mind, Puk. They are raping you by telling you not to love. Stop looking at your parents as a child who has all the answers. But you have to also realize my father is stupid also.