Love Fades. Kindness Saves Relationships

Love does not stay in a long marriage. I'm married to Kiran for 40 years. And this has been the most amazing relationship. Love goes at the end of it. But if you are kind to each other, make a habit of sort of noticing the person. We stop noticing the other person. And also never in a fight, I feel never hit below the belt. What happens when you are in love? You tell your inner secrets, inner fears to the other person. That I feel like this, I'm scared of darkness. And if you have a fight and the person says that thing, that you are like this, then I think the relationship breaks.