Unpredictability creates obsession, not love

The person who is not available for you, he can never be right for your anger. Sometimes he messages, sometimes he doesn't, sometimes he picks up the call, sometimes he doesn't. But when he is with us, everything seems perfect. But then suddenly they vanish and then you keep thinking and wondering. Because you know this unpredictability, it creates an obsession. And we confuse this obsession with love. Love means you are always there. Unpredictability is not growth.