Why Stable Relationships Feel Boring Today

Relationships are a very beautiful education. Neither do they teach you relationships in school, nor in college. The things that we see in our parents' relationships. If they are good, we learn them well. We replicate that. Nowadays, people are learning relationships from Netflix. Which is a problem. Because it is scripted. The drama is scripted. So if you have a guy or a girl who is keeping you stable, they get bored. Because Netflix is not a drama. It is not dopamine, it is excitement. Is everything okay? Let's create some toxicity, let's create some drama, let's have a fight. Nothing will match up in your relationship if you keep comparing it to what you see on screen, or read on a Mills and Moons, or read on a romantic novel.

That is scripted. That's why you go watch it. Because it's not there in your real life. And you don't want it to be there in your real life. Ideally, you should not want it to be there.